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galesofnovember:

People who are passionate about trying to stop shit-talking and gossip,  who write moving treatises on the harm that shit-talking can cause,  or catchy songs about how honest communication is so, so important,  write zines that reference Mean Girls and the importance of stopping gossip, those who make anti-shit-talking their personal death hill,  they have an agenda.  

The agenda is that they are sketchy motherfuckers and want to keep people in the dark about that. 

Pro-Shit-Talking 4Lyfe.  Beware the anti-shit-talking brigade. 

Pass it on. 

i have definitely seen “girls communicating about dudes who make them feel uncomfortable/are abusive towards them” be considered “shit-talking” and “gossip” all the time

Reblogged 9 months ago from galesofnovember
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    yesss gossip queen 4eva #allmybestfriendsarealsogossipqueens #bondingthroughgossiping...
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    Relevant.
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    Bringin’ it back.
  5. shortbreadsh reblogged this from shortbreadsh and added:
    Fr. Flynn’s anti-gossip homily inspired me to reblog this again. For some reason I added my thoughts on a separate post...
  6. mermaidheartsongs reblogged this from gabrieldreadnoughthoax and added:
    right, yeah, I have reblogged this from you before. that was the first time I thought about gossip in this way, but it...
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    for jennie’s thesis the other commentary too
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    So I promised a story, and I keep writing it and rewriting it and going back and forth between bitchy and obviously...
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    Interesting.. I’ve never really thought